I thought today I’d post about something different. Cemeteries :)
Yes, I know that it’s not Samhain or anything, but I’ve always loved cemeteries and graveyards and it ties in to some volunteer work I’ve been doing.
I know some people think graveyards are creepy but I enjoy walking through them and greeting those still there. What were their lives like? What were their stories? Does anyone remember them? Does anyone visit them?
Many cultures have traditions that your are only truly dead when no one speaks your name anymore. When no one knows you existed. The Ancient Egyptians defaced the tombs and sarcophagi of those they hated to give them permanent death. Personally, I have no desire to be buried, I’m happy with my own plans but I still love cemeteries of those that chose to do differently.
I use some of these traditions in both my magic and my writing. I have a few shorts started that have graveyards and their ambiance in them but to me cemeteries are a place of inspiration. My Muse thrives on the wonder at the stories of all these people around me, it somehow feeds my creative side and I’ve been known to go sit in some of the old ones nearby and talk to the dead for a while. It’s soothing and comforting, even.
So what becomes of these old cemeteries when no one visits them anymore?
Right now Mr. Maura is deep into his family’s genealogy and it has given me a chance to do some volunteer work that fits in with my love of cemeteries. There are several projects out there to transcribe and photograph all cemeteries so that people can find the information online and so that the information isn’t lost to natural disaster, defacement, or just the effects of time.
I volunteered to photograph two small local cemeteries to me. One is well maintained and I know its state but the whole family trouped out with me on Saturday to see if the old cemetery near our last house was in as sad a shape as we remembered. This is a Swedish cemetery from 1893 and it’s pretty much destroyed. There is one stone left with a name engraved on it, the other six stones used to have plaques on their tops but only adhesive remains – they were defaced at some point. Now there is nothing to tell you who is there.
I feel like I need to find records for them, to give them back their names and their stories. I’m not sure it’s possible but I’m going to try. It’s a small way to pay a little back to those who came before.
What about you – do you like cemeteries or not? Do you visit them when you travel, like I do?















